The time where I'm just getting to know him namely.
This is for my personal records...just for fun/what I've come to know I like most. And what i don't like. This has taken me a very long time to understand fully.
-I want a fun man who is a party animal and loved by everyone he meets/knows. A very extroverted guy, very sociable and genuine. Therefore, he can help me overcome my incredibly introverted and awkwardly social nature, because his mannerisms will rub off on me. This is something I need IMMENSELY, and I just can't learn to copy outgoing people well enough aha.
-I want him to have most if not all of the same most important beliefs I do. This includes faith, first and foremost--I would love it if he happened to be Orthodox of some kind, Serbian ideally. He must be an avid meat eater and family guy! Lots of cousins and most respect for his family above his friends. But a lot of friends helps too, as said above.
-Smart! In ways that I am not completely familiar with, i.e building things, idk science things, engineering or what have you... if he's super educated and skilled in areas I'm not then that would be fantastic. I would love to be with someone who can TEACH ME STUFF! I want to learn about everything so this would be perfect :)
..Although somewhat of an affinity for art would be good, after all.... :)
-Loves to do random hilarious spontaenous stuff that always brings a good time! This could mean anything classified as a good time :P If he gets along with my uncles/ boy cousins in this respect then I couldn't be happier. I want him and my family to be best pals and that includes having a righteous sense of humour--where they LOVE to embarrass us all by doing silly things.
-If he has a bunch of guy cousins grouped with my guy cousins and suddenly they become best friends that means our family will NEVER have a dull moment...as if it doesn't already.. but I just want constant fun and games :)
-This means he has to have a great inner child! And gets along famously with all my little cousins ! the classic pranking dude runs in my family so it would be great if he was too:P
-Now to sound shallow...I would love this guy to be drop dead gorgeous. Like known by most of the population to be undeniably hot. Beautiful smile, great dark hair and eyes, tanned, excellent facial hair and tall! Everyone in my family is goodlooking and we intend to keep it that way :)
-He needs to be a strongggg dude.. like not body builder-esque *barf* but strong. Lean, wired. Idk. All I need is for him to lift a bunch of kids at once at parties andddd be able to lay out anyone who tried to mess with me or his fam or loved ones. That would be fantasticcccc.
-Ok now for what I don't want...an awkward shy dude, like me. Ahah cept i'm not a dude. But seriously I hate to have to plague him with my social ineptness, but hopefully he'll look past it and most importantly help me overcome it without trying. Just being around him will help me adopt his mannerisms and behaviours around people :) I just wanna talk effortlessly and genuinely!
-A smoker...just please dont be a smoker! Cigars at special occassions is totally fine but as for cigarettes it's just not good.
-Easily angered or a very bad temper like my dad. I got it from him but i don't want to become him especially not to my kids so if he was patient that would mean the world.
-Not culturally active..this guy has to know where he comes from and is proud of it!!! If he's Euro which he had bettahhhh be then he's up for dancing, kolo-ing, partying drinking singing etc. the whole shabang! I forgot to mention that earlier also... he's gotta be a good drinker. I don't trust a man who doesn't drink. :)
-Uhhhmmm wow i think that's all I can think of at this point. This is whats most important to me. As far as him treating me, well, he'll know how. I just know it. I just want him to surprise me. I won't lay out a big list of retarded specificities of how he is to act towards me every day. A gentlemen, who I am looking for, will know all these things by second nature. He will treat me like his mother :). .... cept differently a bit obvs.
I guess I'm just looking for the polar opposite person of me socially, but the same culturally/religiously.
Here's hopin, man. Hope to meet you... soon: )
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